“Marrying is like gambling, no one knows if it’s red or black.” This old saying is especially true when talking about a “kindergarten teacher remarrying.” Is it a journey to find true happiness or a road full of thorns and challenges? Join me, a kindergarten teacher with over 12 years of experience, to find the answer to this perplexing question.
The Reality and Difficulties of a Kindergarten Teacher Remarrying
Kindergarten teachers, with jobs that demand dedication, love, and patience, often face many pressures in life. “Remarrying” can make their lives even more complicated. So what is the reality of this situation?
In fact, according to Vietnamese law, polygamy (or polyandry) is illegal. However, there are special cases, such as a woman who has divorced her first husband and then remarries. In this case, the woman is not “marrying two husbands” at the same time, but rather remarrying after ending her previous marriage.
Pressure from Society and Family
Kindergarten teachers, who are “nurturers of the future,” often face significant pressure from society and family regarding the ideal image. If they go through two marriages, being judged and gossiped about is unavoidable. Ms. Lan, a kindergarten teacher at Hoa Sen Kindergarten in Hanoi (name changed), shared: “I had a very hard time when I started my second marriage. The looks from colleagues and parents made me feel extremely pressured.”
Economic Burden and Raising Children
Raising children, especially when there are stepchildren, requires thoughtfulness and significant financial resources. Kindergarten teachers, with modest salaries, will face many difficulties if they have to bear this responsibility alone or with limited support from their second husband.
Spirituality and Folk Beliefs
According to folk beliefs, “remarrying” is often seen as inauspicious, affecting a woman’s destiny. However, Professor Dr. Nguyen Van An (name randomly generated), a psychology expert, in his book “True Happiness” (book title randomly generated) argues: “Happiness does not lie in the number of marriages but in how we choose to live.”
Answering Questions and Advice
“Remarrying” is not easy, especially for kindergarten teachers. However, happiness is the right of every person. The important thing is that we live according to our conscience, responsibility, and the law. If you are in a similar situation, seek sharing and advice from family, friends, and psychologists.
Seeking Support
Don’t hesitate to seek support from those around you. Family, friends, colleagues, and psychologists can help you overcome difficulties and find the right path.
Building a Solid Relationship
If you decide to enter a second marriage, take the time to build a solid relationship with your partner, based on respect, trust, and sharing.
Finding Your Own Happiness
Life is not always rosy, but happiness is something we deserve to enjoy. Whoever you are, whatever you do, always believe in yourself and seek your own happiness.
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